I chose to read the article by McKinnon and the article was starting to catch my eye when the conversation about Jewish people were "Gods chosen ones', and I was like okay this part of the article is getting a little weird but then as I kept reading McKinnon explained that she didn't agree with what was going on in the conversation but she didn't want to argue so they just kept nodding their head to what that person was saying, then that reminded me of a part of the truth article where McKinnon said, "Seeking to understand what I had already deemed unreasonable and sometimes even racist, I was always pretending to be more open to them than I could have ever been." To me this quote means that even though McKinnon was disagreeing with what was going on in the conversation, she didn't want to say what she really felt because of what could happen if she did. So it made me think about should we always choose to keep the peace in a conversation if we don't agree with it?
I had a situation a few months ago with a coworker where she answered the phone and I could tell she was struggling with understanding who she was on the phone with and she was just sounding frustrated the whole time and eventually when the phone call was done, I asked her what was going on in it. She then responded saying that the persons accent was too hard to understand, she couldn't understand what letters they were saying when they were spelling out their name and then she was saying their name was too hard to spell and say. I noticed that the name was a typical Middle Eastern name that I see all the time since I'm half Lebanese but what bothered me was that she was being rude about that person having an accent and it just hurt me because I have seen countless of people be rude to my mom because of her accent and try to act like they can't understand her but my coworker doesn't understand that because she's American and has never been through something like that. Everything in me wanted to argue with her but I chose to just nod along and kind of tune her out because I didn't want to cause conflict at work but now when I think about that situation, I wish I would've said something so she could have realized how rude and inconsiderate she was being.